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Tuesday, 27 May 2014

The story of a blind girl

The story of a blind girl

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.
One day someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she could see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?”
The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend was blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying:
“Just take care of my eyes dear.”

This is how human brain changes when the status changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations.
Life Is A Gift
Today before you think of saying an unkind word–
think of someone who can’t speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food–
think of someone who has nothing to eat.
Before you complain about your husband or wife–
think of someone who is crying out to God for a companion.
Today before you complain about life–
think of someone who went too early to heaven.
Before you complain about your children–
think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.
Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep–
think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive–
think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job–
think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another–
remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down–
put a smile on your face and thank God you’re alive and still around.
Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, and Fulfill it.
Author Unknow

Monday, 26 May 2014

Acres of diamond

Acres of Diamond

There was a farmer in Africa who was happy
and content. He was happy because he was
content. He was content because he was
happy. One day a wise man came to him and
told him about the glory of diamonds and
the power that goes along with them. The
wise man said, "If you had a diamond the
size of your thumb, you could have your own
city. If you had a diamond the size of your
fist, you could probably own your own
country." And then he went away. That night
the farmer couldn't sleep. He was unhappy
and he was discontent. He was unhappy
because he was discontent and discontent
because he was unhappy. The next morning
he made arrangements to sell off his farm,
took care of his family and went in search of
diamonds. He looked all over Africa and
couldn't find any. He looked all through
Europe and couldn't find any. When he got to
Spain, he was emotionally, physically and
financially broke. He got so disheartened
that he threw himself into the Barcelona
River and committed suicide. Back home, the
person who had bought his farm was
watering the camels at a stream that ran
through the farm. Across the stream, the
rays of the morning sun hit a stone and
made it sparkle like a rainbow. He thought it
would look good on the mantle piece. He
picked up the stone and put it in the living
room. That afternoon the wise man came
and saw the stone sparkling. He asked, "Is
Hafiz back?" The new owner said, "No, why
do you ask?" The wise man said, "Because
that is a diamond. I recognize one when I see
one." The man said, no, that's just a stone I
picked up from the stream. Come, I'll show
you. There are many more." They went and
picked some samples and sent them for
analysis. Sure enough, the stones were
diamonds. They found that the farm was
indeed covered with acres and acres of
diamonds.
What is the moral of this story? There are five
morals:
1. When our attitude is right, we realize that we
are all walking on acres and acres of diamonds.
Opportunity is always under our feet. We don't
have to go anywhere. All we need to do is
recognize it.
2. The grass on the other side always looks
greener.
3. While we are dyeing the grass on the other
side, there are others who are dyeing the grass
on our side. They would be happy to trade
places with us.
4. When people don't know how to recognize
opportunity, they complain of noise when it
knocks.
5. The same opportunity never knocks twice. The
next one may be better or worse, but it is never
the same one.

EDUCATION DOES NOT MEANGOOD JUDGEMENT


EDUCATION DOES NOT MEAN
GOOD JUDGEMENT

There is a story about a man who sold hot
dogs by the roadside. He was illiterate, so
he never read newspapers . He was hard of
hearing, so he never listened to the radio.
His eyes were weak, so he never watched
television. But enthusiastically, he sold lots
of hot dogs. His sales and profit went up. He
ordered more meat and got himself a bigger
and a better stove. As his business was
growing, the son, who had recently
graduated from college, joined his father.
Then something strange happened. The son
asked, "Dad, aren't you aware of the great
recession that is coming our way?" The
father replied, "No, but tell me about it." The
son said, "The international situation is
terrible. The domestic is even worse. We
should be prepared for the coming bad time."
The man thought that since his son had been
to college, read the papers, and listened to
the radio, he ought to know and his advice
should not be taken lightly. So the next day,
the father cut down his order for the meat
and buns, took down the sign and was no
longer enthusiastic. Very soon, fewer and
fewer people bothered to stop at his hot dog
stand. And his sales started coming down
rapidly. The father said to his son, "Son, you
were right. We are in the middle of a
recession. I am glad you warned me ahead
of time."
What is the moral of the story?
1. Many times we confuse intelligence with
good judgment.
2. A person may have high intelligence but
poor judgment.
3. Choose your advisers carefully and use
your judgment.
4. A person can and will be successful with
or without formal education if they have the
5 Cs: character
commitment
conviction
courtesy
courage
5. The tragedy is that there are many
walking encyclopedias who are living
failures.

HOW I START MY DAY

The secret to changing life is to think about your mortality.
Think of the regrets youbwill have .
Once that clarity comes in your mind stari your day with a gratitude and positively
If you think you day will bad it will bad .
Try to change your habits with motivation and focus to create everday magic
When we wake up in the morrning, there os short period of time called the hypotonic state  anything you say to yourself will be heard by both parts of mind . Use this time to aet an afirmation and manifest magic into your life by an action , as simple as this. Try it.
I feel morning Is a time to raise your self - confidence that comes by changing your fixed attitude to life . Go with the life flow. Be easy.
There are some habits which you must adopt to be happy:
Wake up with a positive affirmation, be kind to yourselfand others; dont be judgemental; self love. Is important ; laugh a lot; tell someone you love them ; appericate every moment. Allow good thongs to happen to you..
       
    
                                   -Ursula james
                                   author, therapist

Sunday, 25 May 2014

The First story- importance of attitude

The First story – Importance of
Attitude
There was a man who made living selling
balloons at a fair. He had all colors of
balloons Including red, yellow, green.
Whenever business was slow, he would
release a helium filled balloons into the air
and when the children saw it go up, they all
wanted to buy one. They would come up to
him, buy a balloon and his sales would go up
again. He continues this process all day. One
day, he felt something tugging his jacket. He
turned around and saw a little boy who
asked,” If you release a black balloon, would
that also fly?” Moved by the boy’s concern,
the man replied with empathy.” Son, it is not
the Color of the balloon, it is what inside
that makes it go up.”
The same thing applies to our lives. It is what is
inside that counts. The thing inside of us that
makes is go up is our attitude.